Ok, so I was doing research on male attraction and found all kinds of conflicting results, play hard to get, don't play hard to get, smile, don't smile, be assertive, be demure...ok what the hell?
But in all of them I found a common link : CONFIDENCE!!. Sex appeal is the biggest attraction of all It might seem like sex appeal is tough to get, but it is actually easier than what you think. Sex appeal is all about confidence. Having in mind that you are a wonderful, intelligent and happy woman.
Those things are sexy!
Work on your confidence fast. The more you believe in yourself, the more confident you will be. Confidence translates into passion, and that thrills him like nothing else!
So how do you get confidence?
Be Positive, even if you don't feel the same way. Avoid self-pity, or the pity and sympathy of others. Never allow others to make you feel inferior. If you continue to loathe and belittle yourself, others are going to do and believe likewise. Instead, speak positively about yourself, about your future, and about your progress.
Accept compliments gracefully. Don't roll your eyes and say, "Yeah, right," or shrug it off. Take it to heart and respond positively (Thank you and smile!)
Fake it. Acting confident might actually make you believe it. Pretend you're a completely confident version of you; go through the motions and see how you feel!
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